Success Is Not An Accident by Tommy Newberry

Tuesday, March 31, 2009


This book’s title caught my eye at my recent library book sale. But its catchy title can't save this book. It has a generic green and red cover and features a very shady looking Tommy Newberry standing there with his arms stretched out. Reading the book, I immediately noticed the wasted pages. Lists, clip art, and bulleted boxes are all used as page fillers. Even with these flaws, I decided to purchase it. My $2.00 bag contained 14 books. Overall, I think this book was worth the 14 cents I paid for it.

To save you from buying or reading this book, here is Tommy Newberry’s guide to success:
1. Decide what success means to you.
2. Write a personal mission statement to get you on that path.
3. Write down your life goals.
4. Use your time efficiently.
5. Mentally prepare yourself to be successful through “self-talk.”
6. Use visualization techniques to imagine yourself completing your goals.
7. Eat healthy, exercise, and be well-rested.

In his afterword, Newberry rants about America’s hatred of successful people. He feels that we should live in an “every man for himself” society where the rich aren’t taxed as heavily and the poor are more reliant on themselves for their own needs. He explains how the United States has become more socialist and feels we have a “Gold Medal Tax” where the winner (successful people) of an event (life) must melt down his gold medal and share it with the losers (unsuccessful people). This entire section felt out of place and could have been omitted from the book.

Newberry makes it clear that you are responsible for your success. He divides the book into seven lessons and provides exercises to further your progress. There isn’t really anything new in this book, but it is worth a read. If you happen to choose this book to lead you toward success, it will not be a waste unless you have to pay more than 14 cents for it.

Blog Templates

Monday, March 30, 2009

I got home from work around 7:30pm tonight. I immediately began searching for a template to use on this blog. After spending a significant amount of time searching and trying different templates out, I decided to go with the one I have been using from the beginning. Although it is very basic, I really like the style and the customization aspect of it. Besides, if you are reading this, you are probably more interested in content anyway.

Most of the templates I sampled had very little customization and/or were not what I was looking for. Some were just awful. The worst part about changing templates is that I lost everything I changed except for my posts. I had to manually go back and change the fonts and colors back to how I originally had them. As a result, I made no progress today. Check back tomorrow evening for my review of "Success Is Not An Accident" by Tommy Newberry.

Are You Living The Life You Imagined?

Sunday, March 29, 2009

Today is cool and rainy. It is a perfect Sunday to relax and recharge for the upcoming week. I decided to include one of my writings in the blog today. I have about twenty different topics I want to write about and this one seemed like a good place to start. It is called “Are You Living the Life You Imagined?” and it raises some questions about life goals and provides some thoughts on the effect of society and advertising on our happiness.


Are You Living The Life You Imagined?


How many of us live the life we imagined for ourselves as children? What is holding you back from your dreams? Most people would say it's lack of money. Money should not stop you from achieving your goals. If you are passionate about something, you should ask yourself: What can I do today to get where I want to be tomorrow? Find a way to make every day a new adventure.

While this seems like a daunting task, the first place to look is your job. Work is necessary to provide for your needs (and wants). While it may be necessary to work until you are financially and emotionally ready to pursue your passion, there will be other obstacles to overcome. Our society is extremely status-based, which causes us to focus on living up to the standards set or expected by others. In many people’s minds, what you do is more important than who you are. You must accept that people will judge you. We are defined by our physical appearance, education, occupation, and material possessions. Society creates stereotypes that are not always true. Is a doctor a better person than a garbage man? If you chose the doctor, how can you tell?

Because of society’s standards, we live the life others think we should live, not the life we imagined for ourselves. We live in a society dominated by the media and advertising. Advertisers tell us we are unhappy. They tell us the products they offer will solve our problems and increase our happiness. Advertising persuades people to emulate unattainable wealth, striving for material possessions that, in reality, do nothing to increase happiness. It is proven that an individual’s happiness level increases very little once his/her basic needs are met. There may be initial spikes in happiness caused by external events, but his/her happiness level will always return to a predetermined baseline. Lottery winners often experience this surge in happiness and its eventual collapse. The only way to true happiness is to look inside yourself. You must be the person your truly are. Live your dash.

Afternoon Walk on a Cloudy Day

Saturday, March 28, 2009

Spring is finally here and the weather is getting warmer. One of my new favorite things is taking weekend walks with my fiance, Coty. I love the fresh air and exercise. It is a great way to spent time together without all the usual distractions. We have been walking in a new location for the past few weeks. This week we traveled to Linden, PA. I brought my camera along today and got a few photos of some farms and animals we saw along the way. Click the Photo Gallery link on the sidebar to see them all.

Grilling Extravaganza!

Friday, March 27, 2009

Today was our office cookout. Burgers, hot dogs, chips, and soda were had by all. I posted a short video of the food cooking on my You Tube channel. If you are a grilling enthusiast you may enjoy it. Otherwise it's pretty boring. Click the link in the sidebar to view it. And remember: Nothing beats a Friday cookout at work!

Follow Me on Twitter

Thursday, March 26, 2009

You can now follow me on Twitter. I will also be uploading videos to You Tube in the near future. The links are in the sidebar.

Come back Friday March 27th to see my first post!

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Office cookout planned!