Opening A Closed Mind

Friday, April 3, 2009

It is pointless to argue with someone who refuses to accept anything other than what they believe to be true. When debating (or arguing), it is important to listen to and consider the other person’s views on the subject. Instead of immediately forming a rebuttal, you must listen to the other person’s stance and decide if it is true or makes more sense than your stance. If it does, tell that person they make a good point. You don’t have to blatantly admit that you are wrong (and you probably won’t), just agree and drop it. You may initially feel that you lost, but in reality, you both win. On the other hand, if the other person is clearly wrong, explain the reasons they are wrong and hopefully they will consider your view and go through the same process described above. This solution will save you both time and energy.

People need to give up their ego and admit when they are wrong. Some people find it more important to fight for their point than actually be correct. Always try to learn from other people. This will help you make better judgements and increase your level of knowledge. And lastly, do not make judgements when you have no knowledge or experience on a subject.